Annual Report

2023-2024

Our Mission

Delivering support when it is needed, led by the people who need it, in a creative way.

Our Vision

That every family who has experienced preteen Child Loss has access to support that aids them in living with grief in a positive way.

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Founded in 2020 by Louise Taylor, during a time she was struggling to find the right support after her own loss. Louise turned to alternative ways to keep her mind focused and away from the heavy thoughts that come after a child loss. She found herself talking more while she discovered new hobbies and interests.

By following these new interests she has developed a following who understand how using our hands helps our minds and hearts process grief. Louise is using this strength as the foundation for the Little Forget Me Nots Trust and beginning to build a new path for alternative support in Northern Ireland.

We want to connect you with alternative ways that may help you figure out techniques to overcome obstacles whenever you feel ready to face the world again and begin to live with grief.

Over the last 4 years, we have been working hard to pilot projects and generate an income to fund running costs and now we are thankfully in the position to be supporting families right across Northern Ireland.

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• Founded in 2020
• Improving access to alternative support for families who have experienced pre-teen Child Loss.
• Provides immediate practical support for families after a child's death.
• Provides ongoing support through our peer support sessions- Just Be Cafes
• Offers transitional support for families in the months and years following a Child Loss through peer crafting sessions and art therapy.
  

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Louise Taylor

Founder

Catherine Muldoon

Community Connections Officer

Nikcollette McPeake

Support Admin Officer

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Team Lochlann - December ‘24

Team Oisin - January ‘24

Our Board - July ‘23

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24/25 Aims and Objectives

Aims:

1. To provide creative support to bereaved parents across Northern Ireland who have experienced the loss of a child from early miscarriage through to 12 years of age.

2. To expand the reach and impact of our services by increasing accessibility and visibility within local communities.

3. To strengthen connections with other support organisations across Northern Ireland for better collaboration and resource-sharing.

4. To increase fundraising efforts to sustain and expand our programs and initiatives.

5. To enhance the well-being and resilience of bereaved families by offering a variety of support services tailored to their needs.

Objectives:

1. Increase website traffic and attendance at support sessions by continuing to promote our services through various channels.

2. Expand our Just Be Cafes to three static venues in Lurgan, Omagh, and Derry/Londonderry, with plans to establish a sibling support Just Be cafe by mid-2024.

3. Increase volunteer engagement and community involvement in fundraising activities to achieve a fundraising target of £50,000 in 2024.

4. Provide ongoing support to bereaved families by offering art therapy, fitness, and wellbeing programs, and monitoring their progress through the "Alive, Survive, Thrive" framework.

5. Strengthen partnerships with funding bodies like the National Lottery Community Fund to secure resources for supporting more families and expanding our services.

6. Monitor and evaluate the effectiveness of our support programs through ongoing quantitative and qualitative data collection, focusing on the progression of families from "Alive" to "Survive" to "Thrive" stages of their grief journey.

By achieving these aims and objectives, The Little Forget Me Nots Trust aims to make a meaningful difference in the lives of bereaved families across Northern Ireland, providing them with the support and resources they need to navigate their grief journey and rebuild their lives.

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Finance Report

1. Revenue:

Current Balance across Bank account and Paypal account: £37,408.28

2. Main Sources of Income:

The primary sources of income were fundraising activities and successful funding applications. Notably, funding from the Art Works fund, secured in 2022 as part of a three-year initiative, has been a significant contributor, with 50% of the funding already utilised.

3. Expenditures:

Major expenditures for the year included wages, facilitating Just Be Cafes, and supporting the Finding My Strength program and art therapy initiatives.

4. Future Financial Outlook:

Anticipated growth in fundraising efforts is expected for the upcoming fiscal year, with a focus on volunteer campaigns and various fundraising initiatives planned for 2024. However, there will also be increased expenditures, particularly in wages due to team expansion. Additionally, larger funding applications will be pursued to establish a long-term sustainability plan. The decision to establish Just Be Cafes in three static locations aims to enhance accessibility for users but will also lead to increased facilitation and material costs.

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The Little Forget Me Nots Trust has experienced remarkable growth and engagement across social media platforms, fostering a supportive online community and expanding our reach to connect with a wider audience. We have worked hard at developing this and have taken on support in this. Here's a snapshot of our progress:

Facebook:

- Reach: Our Facebook reach has surged to an impressive 143,196, demonstrating the significant impact of our content and campaigns in reaching and resonating with users.

- Content Interaction: With 2,100 interactions, including likes, comments, and shares, our content has sparked meaningful engagement and conversations within our community.

- Followers: We've amassed a dedicated following of 1,100 followers on Facebook, indicating a growing interest in our mission and initiatives.

- Link Clicks: Our content has driven 12,377 link clicks, showcasing a strong interest in exploring further resources and information provided by the Trust.

Note: It's important to acknowledge that our Facebook reach numbers include a trial period of advertising, where we reached over 117,000 accounts. This trial extended beyond our target demographic, contributing to the exceptionally high reach figure.

Instagram:

- Reach: On Instagram, our reach has reached 69,151 users, demonstrating our ability to connect with a diverse audience and share our message effectively.

- Content Interaction: With 6,900 interactions, our content on Instagram has sparked significant engagement and interaction among followers, fostering a sense of community and support.

- Followers: Our Instagram following has grown to 2,400 followers, reflecting increasing interest in our cause and content on the platform.

- Link Clicks: We've seen 621 link clicks on Instagram, indicating a strong desire among users to explore additional resources and engage further with our content.

Overall, our social media growth highlights the effectiveness of our communication strategies, the resonance of our message, and the growing interest in our mission to support bereaved parents through creativity and community. We remain committed to leveraging social media as a powerful tool for connection, advocacy, and support, as we continue to expand our reach and impact in the digital sphere.

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In the upcoming year, the Little Forget Me Nots Trust is poised to continue its impactful work in supporting bereaved parents through creativity and community engagement. Here’s a glimpse into our plans for 2024-25:

1. Just Be Cafes Expansion: We are thrilled to announce the launch of monthly Just Be Cafes in three static locations across Northern Ireland—Lurgan, Omagh, and Derry/Londonderry. These cafes will provide vital spaces for parents to come together, share experiences, and find solace in a supportive community. The launch month is set for March 2024.

2. Information Events: In collaboration with various organisations and businesses, we will host information events aimed at providing crucial resources and support to bereaved parents. Our first event took place on February 24th with Stephen Morgan Funeral Directors in Newcastle.

3. Community Pharmacy Project: Our Community Pharmacy Project is set to launch in April 2024, further expanding our reach and accessibility to bereaved parents in the community.

4. RCM/SANDs Conference Exhibition: We are honoured to exhibit at the RCM/SANDs Conference in June, where we will showcase our work and connect with professionals and organisations in the field.

5. Sibling Support Just Be Cafe Launch: In May, we will introduce a new Sibling Support Just Be Cafe, recognising the unique needs of children grieving the loss of a sibling.

6. Participation in Events: Our teams will actively participate in various events throughout the year, including the Belfast Marathon Relay in May and the Todd's Leap Mud Run in October, coinciding with the beginning of Baby Loss Awareness Week.

7. Darcy McKenna Memorial Cup: As part of Baby Loss Awareness Week, we will continue our support int he organisation of the Darcy McKenna Memorial Cup Basketball Tournament, fostering community spirit and remembrance.

8. Wave of Light Events: Across Northern Ireland, we will host multiple Wave of Light events during Baby Loss Awareness Week, providing opportunities for reflection and solidarity.

9. Light Up the Night Walk: In December, we will host the Light Up the Night and Walk with the Stars event in memory of Lochlann Quinn, providing a poignant moment of remembrance and hope as we close out the year.

These initiatives reflect our commitment to supporting bereaved parents through creative and meaningful avenues, fostering community, remembrance, and healing throughout Northern Ireland. We are grateful for the continued support of our donors, volunteers, and partners as we strive to make a difference in the lives of those experiencing loss.

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At the Little Forget Me Nots Trust, we believe that every act of kindness and support makes a significant difference in the lives of bereaved parents. Here are several ways you can join us in our mission to provide comfort, community, and creative support:

1. Donate: Your financial contribution directly supports our programs and initiatives, allowing us to expand our reach and provide essential resources to those in need. Every donation, no matter the size, helps us make a meaningful impact.

2. Volunteer: Join our dedicated team of volunteers and contribute your time and skills to various projects and events. Whether you have expertise in event planning, fundraising, or simply want to lend a helping hand, there are numerous opportunities to get involved.

3. Spread Awareness: Help us raise awareness about the challenges faced by bereaved parents and the importance of support and understanding. Share our mission and initiatives on social media, participate in awareness campaigns, and encourage others to join the cause.

4. Host Fundraising Events: Organise fundraising events in your community, workplace, or school to raise funds for the Little Forget Me Nots Trust. From bake sales to charity walks, there are endless ways to mobilise support and make a positive impact.

5. Provide In-Kind Support: Consider donating goods or services that can benefit our programs and events. Whether it's offering event space, providing catering, or donating art supplies, your in-kind support helps us reduce costs and maximise resources.

6. Corporate Partnerships: Explore opportunities for corporate partnerships and sponsorships to support our initiatives. Partnering with businesses aligns with corporate social responsibility goals and allows us to expand our reach and impact.

7. Attend Events: Participate in our events, workshops, and fundraisers throughout the year. Your presence not only provides vital support to our community but also helps raise awareness and foster a sense of solidarity among bereaved parents.

8. Share Your Story: If you've been personally affected by the loss of a child or have experience supporting bereaved parents, consider sharing your story. Your testimony can offer comfort, hope, and inspiration to others navigating similar experiences.

9. Stay Engaged: Stay informed about our latest initiatives, events, and updates by subscribing to our newsletter, following us on social media, and visiting our website regularly. Your ongoing engagement helps us maintain momentum and continue our vital work.

Together, we can make a difference in the lives of bereaved parents, providing them with the support, compassion, and understanding they need during their journey of healing and remembrance.

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The Little Forget Me Nots Trust extends heartfelt gratitude to all those who have contributed to our mission of supporting bereaved parents through creativity and community. Your support and dedication have made a meaningful difference in the lives of those experiencing loss. We would like to express our sincere appreciation to:

Our Supporters and Funders:

- McAlinden and Murtagh Funeral Directors: Your unwavering support and commitment to our cause have been instrumental in helping us provide vital resources and assistance to bereaved parents. Your partnership exemplifies the spirit of compassion and empathy, and we are deeply grateful for your generosity.

- The National Lottery Community Fund: Your funding has enabled us to expand our reach, develop innovative programs, and provide essential resources to bereaved parents across Northern Ireland. Your commitment to supporting grassroots initiatives like ours has made a profound impact on our ability to serve those in need.

- Department for Communities and Future Screens through the Art Work Fund: We express our gratitude to the Department for Communities and Future Screens for their support through the Art Work Fund. Your investment in creativity and community engagement has empowered us to utilise art as a powerful tool for healing and support.

- The LFT Charitable Trust: The generous support from The LFT Charitable Trust has been instrumental in sustaining our operations, launching new initiatives, and ensuring the continuity of our services. We are deeply appreciative of your commitment to our cause and your belief in the transformative power of compassion and creativity.

- Armagh City, Banbridge and Craigavon Borough Council: We extend our thanks to Armagh City, Banbridge and Craigavon Borough Council and staff at South Lakes Leisure Centre for their ongoing support and partnership. Your investment in our organisation has helped us strengthen our presence within the community and reach more individuals in need of support during their time of loss.

- Building the Community-Pharmacy Partnership Programme: We are grateful for the partnership and support of the Building the Community-Pharmacy Partnership Programme. Your collaboration has enabled us to launch our Community Pharmacy Project, expanding access to support and resources for bereaved parents through innovative partnerships with local pharmacies.

Volunteers and Donors:

We extend our heartfelt thanks to all our volunteers and donors who have generously contributed their time, resources, and support to our organisation. Your selflessness and kindness have helped us make a positive impact and provide comfort to bereaved parents during their time of need.

Board Members and Staff:

We are grateful to our board members and staff for their dedication, leadership, and hard work in advancing our mission and ensuring the success of our programs and initiatives. Your commitment to excellence and compassion inspires us every day.

Community Partners and Collaborators:

We would like to acknowledge our community partners and collaborators for their invaluable support and collaboration in helping us reach more individuals and families in need. Together, we have strengthened our efforts and made a meaningful difference in the lives of those affected by loss.

Friends and Supporters:

To all our friends, supporters, and well-wishers, thank you for standing by us, believing in our vision, and contributing to our cause in countless ways. Your encouragement and solidarity fuel our determination to continue making a positive impact in the lives of bereaved parents.

Special Thanks to:

- Aideen McCanny (Social Media Manager): Aideen, your passion, creativity, and dedication as our social media manager have played a crucial role in amplifying our message and expanding our reach across digital platforms. Your efforts have helped foster a supportive online community and connect us with individuals in need of our services. Thank you for your tireless commitment to our cause.

- Each of our Just Be Cafe facilitators has contributed their time and passion to create welcoming spaces for bereaved parents to come together, share their experiences, and find solace in a supportive community. Your commitment to fostering empathy, understanding, and connection has made a profound difference in the lives of those we serve.

- Sheila Lavery, our esteemed art therapist, has provided invaluable support and guidance to bereaved parents through our creative therapy sessions. Your expertise in harnessing the healing power of art has empowered individuals to explore and express their emotions, fostering a sense of healing and renewal.

- Laura Nelson, the driving force behind Strong Mums NI, has led our Finding My Strength program with compassion, empathy, and unwavering dedication. Your leadership and support have empowered bereaved mothers to navigate their grief journey, discover their inner strength, and find hope in the face of loss.

In Memory:

We honour and remember all the precious lives lost and the families who carry them in their hearts. Your resilience and strength inspire us, and we are privileged to walk alongside you on your journey of healing and remembrance.

Together, we are making a difference, one small gesture of kindness at a time. Thank you for your unwavering support and commitment to the Little Forget Me Nots Trust.

With heartfelt appreciation,

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